The Background Story of Deepening
In the early morning hours of January 9, 2025, Reginald Saxton sat at his laptop with more thoughts, emotions, and convictions than he could type fast enough to capture. What came out that morning was not a polished book plan. It was rough, emotional, unorganized, and full of clumsy sentences. But it was cathartic…honest.
That morning became the beginning of Deepening.
The words came from a place that had been building for years. Reginald had been walking through one of the most difficult seasons of his life. Marital strain, personal regret, self-doubt, counseling, deep introspection, and a renewed search for truth had forced him to look honestly at himself. He had to face the gap between the man he had been, the man his family needed, and the man his faith was calling him to become.
What began as a private moment of reflection slowly became something larger. The writing turned into a guide he wished had existed when he was younger. A guide for seeing truth more clearly. A guide for making wiser decisions. A guide for preparing for love, marriage, family, and legacy with more intention.
At first, Deepening was written with his own sons and daughters in mind. He wanted to leave them more than advice, memories, or good intentions. He wanted to leave them something they could return to when life became hard, confusing, or costly.
Over time, that private burden became a broader calling. The lessons were too important to keep only inside one family.
Deepening became a paired men’s and women’s workbook-style series built around truth, love, and legacy. It was born from painful wisdom, faith in Christ, honest self-examination, and the belief that a life can still be corrected, rebuilt, and passed forward with purpose.
That is why these books were written.
Not just to say something, but to leave something.
Author’s Biography
Reginald Saxton is a U.S. Air Force veteran, corporate leader, author, husband, father, and grandfather whose life has been shaped by discipline, service, hard-earned wisdom, and faith. His career spans more than forty-five years across the United States Air Force and corporate America.
During his Air Force career, Reginald spent approximately six years counseling and advising hundreds of young men and women on education, career direction, personal development, and life choices. That experience gave him firsthand insight into how people from different cultural, economic, racial, and family backgrounds think about their futures, their challenges, their opportunities, and their sense of purpose.
After transitioning to civilian life, Reginald built a multi-decade career in corporate America, including more than 35 years in the healthcare industry. Through years of working inside complex organizations, he gained a practical understanding of accountability, workplace pressure, communication, decision-making, and the patterns that often shape maturity, growth, and personal responsibility.
But Reginald’s writing is not rooted in professional experience alone. It is also shaped by what he learned at home. Marriage, fatherhood, personal failure, and faith forced him to look honestly at himself and ask whether he was becoming the kind of man his family needed.
As a father of sons and daughters, he has spent years thinking deeply about what should be passed on to the next generation. Not just financially, but morally, spiritually, relationally, and emotionally. His work reflects a growing conviction that legacy is not simply what people inherit after we are gone. It is what they are able to build because of what we lived, repaired, modeled, and taught while we were here.
The foundation for Deepening came from one of the most difficult and revealing seasons of Reginald’s life. He entered a deep trough of self-doubt, low self-esteem, personal regret, and painful self-examination. Serious marital strain, for which he takes personal responsibility, deeply affected his wife and family. Rather than walk away, excuse it, or remain unchanged, he became determined to confront himself honestly and do the hard work of repair.
That season led him into counseling, therapy, deep introspection, serious self-improvement study, and a much stronger faith in Christ. Through that process, he began to understand how much damage can happen when a person is outwardly functional but inwardly ungrounded. He came to see that providing and achieving are not the same as wisdom, peace, emotional steadiness, love, or spiritual maturity.
For many years, Reginald allowed professional ambition to take up too much space. Work gave him structure and stability, but it could not give him what mattered most. It could not replace faith. It could not restore peace at home. It could not make him emotionally present for the people he loved. Through that realization, he discovered that true manhood and fatherhood are shaped by biblical truth, not by the shifting messages of society and culture. He also learned that legacy does not begin near life’s dusk. It begins much earlier, in the choices we make, the values we model, the wounds we repair, and the wisdom we pass on.
Out of that season, Deepening began to take shape. It was not written as abstract advice or distant commentary. It grew from hard lessons, honest study, biblical reflection, and the desire to turn painful wisdom into something useful. Reginald wanted to create the kind of guide he wishes had been available to him in his late teens and early adulthood: a practical, faith-informed resource for seeing truth more clearly, making wiser choices, preparing for healthier relationships, and becoming more intentional before life teaches the same lessons the hard way.
His decades of professional, civic, and volunteer service have kept him close to real people and real life. From founding a nonprofit for interracial families to serving with large civic nonprofits, Reginald has worked with people navigating questions of identity, family, opportunity, belonging, and direction. He is also an active member and volunteer in several ministries at Grace Church in Humble, Texas.
Reginald writes as a man who has observed life closely, made mistakes, taken responsibility, learned from painful seasons, and come to believe deeply in the possibility of change. His message is direct but hopeful: people can confront destructive patterns, rebuild their foundations, strengthen their relationships, restore their faith, and live with greater intention.
When he is not writing or speaking, Reginald enjoys biblical study, fishing, exploring beaches in warm waters, discovering new foods, and traveling with family.
He is committed to living the message he teaches: that faith, discipline, truth, love, and moral courage can rebuild a life, strengthen a family, and help leave a culture worth passing on.
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